This incredibly intelligent article here is really about USA’s foreign policy, but I think can be applied to life in general. Check it out! It is written and articulated so well.
After you read the article, you’ll see that the author practices what he preaches. His reply to a comment on his article is perfect.
We teach children this same concept in kindergarten, how do we forget it as adults? It happens :)…we are always a work in progress…